Rejection - Living Loved - 227

What if the rejection you feel most deeply isn't even real? We all create stories in our minds about how others perceive us, but these narratives often spring from our own insecurities rather than reality. This powerful conclusion to our three-part rejection series explores how living from a foundation of being deeply loved transforms everything about how we navigate perceived slights and actual rejection.

Through an uncomfortably relatable story about a gym encounter gone wrong, we discover how easily we assign thoughts to others they never had and own rejection they never gave us. The problem isn't just external rejection – it's our desperate search for validation in all the wrong places.

God offers us a profoundly different path. When we slow down long enough to abide in Jesus, delight in Him, and dwell in His presence, something remarkable happens. Our empty cups get filled not with mere drops but with overflowing love that changes how we see ourselves and others. 

The journey to living loved isn't about manipulating our feelings or forcing positive self-talk. It's about returning to our Creator who formed us, cherishes us, and sings over us. As Zephaniah 3:17 reveals, "The Lord your God is with you, the mighty warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing."

Like the disciples who were first called to "be with Jesus" before being sent out, we discover that fullness comes when we prioritize presence over performance. When we operate from the full assurance of God's love, we no longer flirt with worldly validation or misinterpret rejection when it's not there.

Ready to transform your relationship with rejection? Listen now and discover why rejection isn't failure – it's redirection toward the love that's been waiting for you all along.

Chapters

• 0:08 Introduction to Living Loved
• 2:48 The Gym Lady Story
• 9:01 Perceived vs. Actual Rejection
• 15:00 Embracing God's Unconditional Love
• 21:28 Seeking God vs. Worldly Distractions
• 29:16 Abiding in Jesus First
• 37:43 Conclusion: Overcoming Rejection's Fear

Transcript

Daniel Moore: 0:08

In our fast-paced lives, we often find ourselves in difficult situations or messes because we are constantly chasing after the next thing and neglecting our relationship with God. It is only through slowing down, abiding in Jesus and delighting in Him that we can experience true transformation and restoration. By reconnecting with the One who can breathe life and love back into our depleted and dead places, we can find peace and healing in the midst of chaos. This week, on Connecting the Gap, we wrap up our three-part mini-series on rejection. We'll get back into that right after this. Welcome to Connecting the Gap. I'm Daniel Moore, your host. This is a podcast about marriage, bible and book studies, and we interview people that have a story. Thank you, guys for joining us this week. If you're not familiar with our show, check out our website at wwwconnectingthegapnet for all of our platforms, and you can also reach us at marriageriagelifeandmorecom. Our YouTube and Rumble links are there. We're also on the Christian Podcasting app, edify, and you can also visit us on social at facebookcom or Instagram at ctgaponline. If you're a fan of our show, please subscribe. Feel free to leave a comment on our platforms, give us a thumbs up or a five-star review, and we'd be grateful to you for doing that, as that helps our podcast to grow Well. As I stated here in the beginning, we've been in a mini-series here for the last couple of weeks on rejection and I hope that you guys have gleaned something from that and enjoyed it. It's been fun putting it together for you. This week we have part three of that series. It's the final installment for this go-around, for this little mini-series here, and we're going to go ahead and get started into that. This week we're going to wrap up the study on rejection by talking about living loved.

Daniel Moore: 2:48

I once read a story that was very interesting. It said there's a lady at my gym who hates me. No, I'm serious. She sees me coming and I can feel little poos of disdain chugging out of her ears as her feet are churning 87 miles per hour on the elliptical machine. I honestly don't know how she goes so fast. I once tried to keep up with her. It was awful, and I think that was the day that her infuriation with me began. Let me back up and confess my sins. That started this whole thing.

Daniel Moore: 3:24

The elliptical machines are set up very close together and are completely awkward with their angular moving parts. Think of a New York high rise and an elephant had a baby. Well, that's an elliptical machine. Now, can you draw up a picture in your mind of the most athletic person that you know, the one who doesn't have a drop of fat on her entire body, not even at her belly button, which should be illegal in my cellulite-ridden opinion? Okay, do you have your person? Well, that's her. She's, honestly, stunningly beautiful. Then picture a marshmallow dressed in a t-shirt and spandex pants. Her ponytail is rather tight, but not much else is. And that's me, hello world.

Daniel Moore: 4:11

So I had to sort of get in her space just a tad to mount my machine, and I think I threw off her rhythm. Well, that was sin number one. And then I decided to try to stay in sync with her because I wanted to teach all the folks at the gym that day, though my legs and drury might not look like it, I'm in shape, my heart can pump with the best of them, and by golly I was tired and being out elliptical by her. Well, that was sin number two. And then there may have been a little issue with me taking a phone call while working out. And then there may have been a little issue with me taking a phone call while working out Well. In my defense, this is not at all my common practice, but a friend called who really needed me. I realize now I should have stepped off my machine and taken the call elsewhere, but I was sort of in a competition at this point and needed to win this thing on behalf of every other marshmallow-feeling woman. I tried to chat quietly, but when you feel like a lung might very well pop out of your mouth at any minute, it's difficult to whisper talk. Well, that was sin number three.

Daniel Moore: 5:14

Three strikes and she deemed me out Out of my mind, out of line, out of control. She abandoned her elliptical and huffed over to the treadmill and she's hated me ever since. But then the other day something occurred, something odd that stunned me. She smiled at me and it wasn't an evil, I'm about to whip your tail into gym floor kind of smile. Either it was like an oh hey, I've seen you here before, right? Kind of smile.

Daniel Moore: 5:48

I thought about her expression the entire time on the elliptical that morning. I mean, I analyzed it up one side and down the other. Was it just a stunned reaction kind of thing where she felt forced to smile because she couldn't figure out what else to do? Or was it I think we could be friends? Or was it a truce of some sort? Well, I've decided it wasn't any of those. I truly believe it was a simple smile acknowledging that she'd seen me but had none of this crazy hate toward me at all. It's all been a perception thing on my part.

Daniel Moore: 6:27

Let me rewrite the story as I now believe it actually is. There's a lady at the gym who really enjoys her workouts. One day, the gal next to her talked on the phone, so instead of making a big deal out of it, she just transitioned over to the treadmill. She really hadn't thought of it much since, and then one day she saw this same woman in the bathroom and smiled and thought good for you for getting up this morning and working out. End of story.

Daniel Moore: 6:55

Obviously, I don't know what went through her head as she smiled, but I think my second version is closer to reality than my first, which has really gotten me thinking about all the many times I assign thoughts to others that they never actually think, I hold them accountable to harsh judgments they never make, and I own a rejection from them that they never gave me. Now, I know, not every rejection is like this. Some are completely certified and undeniable as clear as a just-cleaned window and the feeling so intense they can make you as horrifically stunned as a bird soaring eastward toward the morning sun, only to slam headfirst into that clean window. The thud feels like it might just kill you. That's true rejection. But then there's this perceived rejection like I had with my fellow gym goer. I don't even think I was really on her radar, but in my mind I was absolutely in her crosshairs. And so goes the crazy inside our heads.

Daniel Moore: 8:01

Sometimes it makes me remember something I saw an author friend of mine do several years ago that I filed away in my quote-unquote words I love notebook. She was signing a book. I peeked over to see what she was writing. Her approach was simple Before signing her name, she wrote Live Loved. Not only an instruction but a proclamation, one that now arrests my soul and is so applicable to our discussion at hand Live from the abundant place that you are loved and you won't find yourself begging others for scraps of love.

Daniel Moore: 8:43

Living loved is a tricky concept. While living love may seem like an abstract or idealistic concept, it is ultimately a practice that involves cultivating a deep sense of feeling like you are worth something and acceptance. It is about choosing to live from a place of love rather than fear or insecurity, and allowing that love to guide our actions, thoughts and interactions with others. Living loved can be a challenging notion to fully grasp and embody. While we may discuss the importance of living with a sense of unconditional love through Christ, many individuals struggle to understand how to put this concept into practice. It is common for people to resonate with the idea of quote-unquote living loved, but find it challenging to apply in their everyday lives.

Daniel Moore: 9:36

Despite the positive message that living loved conveys, the reality of navigating through the complexities and uncertainties of life can make it difficult to truly embrace and implement this mindset consistently. There is a disconnect between the idealized notion of living loved and the harsh realities of daily life. Idealized notion of living loved in the harsh realities of daily life. It can be daunting to maintain a sense of love and acceptance towards oneself when faced with adversity, the feelings of doubt and external pressures. The struggle to live loved arises from the disparity between the desire to embody this concept and the difficulty of doing so in the face of the obstacles and challenges that present themselves on a daily basis.

Daniel Moore: 10:21

Living loved is not about achieving a perfect state of feeling loved at all times. It is a continuous journey of discovery, growth and acceptance. It requires a conscious effort to cultivate a mindset of compassion, forgiveness and gratitude towards oneself, even in moments when love feels distant or unattainable. Living loved is about embracing the imperfections, acknowledging the struggles and choosing to approach life with a sense of worthiness and resilience, despite the challenges that may come our way. It's easy to live loved when we feel loved, but some days we just aren't feeling it.

Daniel Moore: 11:05

It is natural for us to let our emotions and past experiences dictate how we feel and react to situations in the present. However, it is important to remember that our worth and value are not determined by the actions or opinions of others. We have the power to choose how we respond to negativity and rejection. One way to overcome these negative feelings is to remind ourselves of the love and acceptance we have in our lives, whether it be from friends, family or God. Knowing that we are loved can help us counteract the feelings of hurt and rejection. It may also be helpful to take a moment to breathe and remind ourselves of our worth, and that can help us navigate through difficult emotions. It is a process to unlearn negative patterns of thinking and replace them with positivity. It may take time and effort, but by consciously choosing to focus on love and acceptance we can overcome the tendency to dwell on rejection and negativity.

Daniel Moore: 12:10

In Zephaniah 3, verse 17,. It says the Lord, your God, is with you. The mighty warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you, in his love. He will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing. This verse illustrates the deep love and acceptance that comes from God. When we internalize the message of this verse, we can find emotional stability and strength. Knowing that God delights in us, loves us unconditionally and rejoices over us with singing can provide a sense of security and reassurance. This kind of love and acceptance can ground us in times of rejection or hurt, helping us to see ourselves through the eyes of divine love rather than through the lens of negative emotions or past experiences. By anchoring ourselves in the love of God, we can strive to emulate this kind of emotional stability in our own lives. Just as God looks upon us with delight and sings over us, we too can choose to approach ourselves and others with love, compassion and a sense of worthiness. This can help us navigate through moments of negativity, rejection and hurt with grace and resilience, knowing that we are deeply loved and accepted. Believing and acknowledging that God is with us and that he showers us with His love can bring a sense of peace and comfort in the midst of life's challenges and uncertainties.

Daniel Moore: 13:41

In Zephaniah 3.17, it is mentioned that God will quiet us with His love, signifying a calming, soothing presence that can silence the noise of worry, fear and doubt that often plague our minds and our hearts. This concept is not limited to moments of prayer or Bible study. Rather, it is a continuous and abiding truth that we can hold on to throughout our daily lives. It is about cultivating a deep and personal relationship with God where we can trust in its constant presence and unwavering love, even in the most difficult and chaotic circumstances. When we make a conscious effort to invite God into every aspect of our lives and practice mindfulness of His love, we can experience a sense of life's ups and downs with a newfound sense of resilience, knowing that we are supported and cherished by a loving and ever-present God. By internalizing the belief that God quiets us with His love, we can shift our perspective and approach to life's challenges, finding peace and strength in the knowledge that we are never alone and that we are deeply loved and cared for by our Creator. Never alone, and that we are deeply loved and cared for by our Creator. This realization can bring about a huge sense of emotional stability and peace that transcends circumstances and enables us to face life's trials with grace and faith.

Daniel Moore: 15:09

It is important to approach acts of service, kindness and love with a genuine and unselfish heart, rather than with the expectation of receiving something in return. Truly loving others should not be motivated by a desire for reciprocity or personal gain, but rather by a sincere desire to bless and serve those around us. When our actions are driven by ulterior motives or hidden expectations, it can lead to disappointment and heartbreak when those expectations are not met. Giving with strings attached can undermine the authenticity and purity of our intentions, turning acts of love into manipulative tactics to fulfill our own needs and desires. To fulfill our own needs and desires.

Daniel Moore: 15:56

Feeling loved is about surrendering to the unconditional love and grace of God, rather than seeking validation or affirmation from others. It is about finding fulfillment and security in our relationship with the Creator, rather than relying on external sources for validation and worth. By focusing on our daily surrender to God and allowing His love to flow through us, we can cultivate a genuine and selfless love for others. This kind of love is not based on performance or expectations, but on a deep-rooted desire to extend grace, kindness and compassion to those around us, without any hidden agendas. In essence, true love is not about what we can gain from others, but about what we can give and share with a pure and open heart. By aligning our actions with the unconditional love of God and surrendering our desires for personal gain, we can truly embody the essence of love and live in accordance with the love that has been freely given to us.

Daniel Moore: 16:59

Living in a world characterized by sin and brokenness can often make it challenging to fully embrace and experience the love that God has for us. The negativity, struggles and temptations that surround us can create barriers and distractions that attempt to hinder our ability to live in the fullness of God's love. However, amidst the chaos and sin-soaked reality of the world, it is essential to continually return to God as our Creator and source of love. By turning to Him in prayer, meditation, study of His Word and worship, we can reaffirm our connection to the One who formed us, knows us intimately and loves us unconditionally. In returning to God, we can find reassurance and comfort in the fact that His love for us remains steadfast and unchanging. His hands are always at work in our lives, constantly shaping and molding us into the individuals he has created us to be. Just as a potter molds clay, god is actively involved in our lives, refining us, filling us with His Spirit and completing the good work that he has begun in us. By acknowledging and embracing God's ongoing work within us, we can overcome the challenges and obstacles that the world presents, allowing His love and grace to permeate every aspect of our being. Through regular communion with God, we can experience transformation, growth and deepening understanding of the immense love that he has for us. Understanding of the immense love that he has for us. In essence, returning to God consistently and allowing His loving hands to guide and shape us enables us to rise above the negativity of the world and live in the fullness of His grace and love. By surrendering to His transformative work within us, we can experience true freedom, joy and fulfillment in our journey of living loved.

Daniel Moore: 18:59

Too many times we like to think we prayed over things, but in reality, we just worried about them. It is a common tendency for us to mistake worrying, seeking advice from those close to us and attempting to solve problems on our own, for genuine prayer and surrender to God. In times of difficulty or uncertainty, we often turn to our own resources, seeking solutions and comfort from external sources, rather than seeking guidance and peace from our Creator. When we allow ourselves to become consumed by the distractions and temptations of the world, we risk missing out on the deep and fulfilling connection that comes from seeking God's presence and love. Although worldly pleasures may provide temporary satisfaction and fleeting enjoyment, they ultimately leave our souls empty and unfulfilled, craving the genuine and lasting love that only God can provide. Flirting with the world in a spiritual sense can lead us down a path of misguided priorities and misplaced affections. While the world may offer temporary pleasures and distractions, it ultimately fails to provide the deep, soul-nourishing love and the fulfillment that we truly need. By prioritizing worldly pursuits over our relationship with God, we deny ourselves the opportunity to experience the love, grace and peace that come from being in communion with our Creator.

Daniel Moore: 20:44

In the midst of life's chaos and distractions, it is crucial to refocus our hearts and minds on God, the one true source of love and fulfillment. By turning to Him in prayer, seeking His guidance and surrendering our worries and burdens to His care, we can experience the deep and abiding love that our souls long for. When we let go of the fleeting attractions of the world and embrace the transformative love of God, we find true peace, fulfillment and wholeness that can only come from His loving embrace. God is always ready to provide the answers, comfort and affection we seek, but often we fail to turn to Him. We try to accomplish things on our own at a rapid pace, when God simply wants us to slow down and accept His help. He already has everything planned out and is prepared to fill any gaps, ease heartache, provide for our needs, answer questions and solve problems Fully, completely, perfectly in Him, with Him, by Him. We need to make a conscious effort to turn to God and spend time in His presence, even when we are weary and worn from striving and running after other things. It must deeply sadden Him to see us searching everywhere for the love and comfort that he is always ready to provide us with. If only we would come to Him daily, despite our struggles and busyness. God longs for us to stop, sit with Him and experience the love and peace that only he can offer. Our constant striving and searching for fulfillment elsewhere only serve to distance us from the true source of love and wholeness that God wants to freely give us.

Daniel Moore: 22:41

Imagine a little girl running with a cup in her hand, sloshing out all it contains. She thinks that what will refill her is just ahead. Just a little further she presses on with sheer determination and clenched teeth and an empty cup clutched tight, she keeps running toward an agenda he never set and one that will never satisfy. She sees him and holds out her cup, but she catches only a few drops as she runs by him, because she didn't stop long enough to be filled up. Empty can't be tempered with mere drops. The tragic truth is, what will fill her, or what will fill us, isn't the accomplishment or the next relationship ahead. That shiny thing is actually a vacuum that sucks us in and sucks us dry but never has the ability to refill. Like me, a lot of you have probably been there before or are right there now. There's no kind of empty quite like this empty where your hands are full but inside you are nothing but an exhausted shell.

Daniel Moore: 23:52

John 15, 7 says If you abide in me and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be done for you. This verse emphasizes the importance of abiding in Jesus and staying connected to Him. Similarly, in Psalm 37, 4, it says Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. 7-4, it says delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. This verse highlights the significance of delighting in the Lord and finding joy in Him.

Daniel Moore: 24:23

In our fast-paced lives, we often find ourselves in difficult situations or messes because we are constantly chasing after the next thing and neglecting our relationship with God. It is only through slowing down, abiding in Jesus and delighting in Him that we can experience true transformation and restoration. By reconnecting with the One who can breathe life and love back into our depleted and dead places, we can find peace and healing. In the midst of chaos, jesus offers us a different way of living, one that is not defined by the rat race but by the slower rhythms of life, such as abiding, delighting and dwelling in His presence. These words remind us to trust Him with our place and our pace, allowing Him to guide us and lead us on a path of restoration and renewal. As we learn to be with Jesus, in these slow moments, we can experience his love and grace in awesome ways leading us out of our messes and into a place of peace and wholeness.

Daniel Moore: 25:27

Psalm 91.1 says he who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty. This verse emphasizes the importance of dwelling in the presence of God and seeking refuge in Him. The imagery of being in the shadow of the Almighty conveys a sense of protection, safety and intimacy with God. When we choose to slow down, abide in Jesus and delight in Him, we are essentially dwelling in the shelter of the Most High. By intentionally spending time in God's presence, seeking His guidance and trusting in His provision, we can experience true peace and security. Just like being in the shadow of a mighty fortress provides shelter from harm, dwelling in God's presence offers us protection from the chaos and challenges of life. As we dwell in the shelter of the Most High, we can find comfort, strength and renewal in His presence. This verse reminds us that our ultimate refuge and security can only be found in God, and by abiding in Him we can experience the fullness of His love and grace. In the slow moments of dwelling in God's presence, we can find rest for our souls and restoration for our weary hearts. Did you catch the beautiful filling promise in each of those verses. Did you catch the beautiful filling promise in each of those verses?

Daniel Moore: 26:53

Abiding in Jesus, delighting in Him and dwelling in His presence. They all point to the beautiful filling and alignment that occurs when we prioritize our relationship with God. When we choose to abide, delight and dwell in Him, our desires begin to align with His best for us. As we draw closer to God and seek His will above our own, he places within us desires that reflect His heart and purpose for our lives. This means that when we ask for something in accordance with His will, he is faithful to fulfill those requests because they are consistent with His best for us. This alignment allows us to trust in God's provision and know that he will satisfy the desires of our hearts because they are in harmony with His own. When we are connected to God through abiding, delighting and dwelling in Him, we tap into His consistent power and stability. This connection enables us to find strength in His presence, knowing that he is the source of unwavering support and security in our lives. By aligning our hearts with His, we can experience the fullness of His promises and the abundant blessings that come from walking in close relationship with Him. And this is the fullness of the person who can truly live loved. This was the kind of fullness that that woman needed to properly process the woman at the gym. This is the depth of fulfillment we require in every challenge we encounter, and it is precisely the richness we seek as we fulfill our purpose of spreading Jesus' love in a world in need of hope.

Daniel Moore: 28:39

Mark, chapter 3, verse 14 and 15, says and he appointed twelve, whom he also named apostles, so that they might be with him and he might send them out to preach and have authority to cast out demons, and he might send them out to preach and have authority to cast out demons. This passage shows the dual nature of the disciples' calling when Jesus appointed them. The first part of their calling was to be with him. This involved spending time in close fellowship with Jesus, learning from him and developing a deep personal relationship with him. This intimate connection was essential for the disciples to truly understand Jesus' teachings, character and mission. By being with Him, they were able to witness His miracles, hear His teachings and experience His love and grace firsthand. The second part of their calling was to be sent out to preach, cast out demons and minister in Jesus' name, after spending time with Jesus and receiving His teachings. The disciples were empowered and equipped to go out into the world and share the good news of the kingdom of God. They were given authority to perform miracles and confront the forces of darkness, demonstrating the power and presence of God in their lives.

Daniel Moore: 29:56

This two-fold calling of being with Jesus and being sent out to proclaim His message is still relevant for us today. Just like the disciples, we are called to cultivate a deep personal relationship with Jesus through prayer, studying the Word, worship and fellowship with other believers. This intimate connection with Christ is essential for us to grow in our faith, maturity and understanding of His will for our lives. Additionally, we are also called to go out into the world and share the love of Jesus with others, whether it is through evangelism, serving in our communities or ministering to those in need. We are called to be ambassadors of Christ and bring His light and hope to a broken and hurting world.

Daniel Moore: 30:43

By following the example of the disciples and embracing both aspects of their calling, we can experience the fullness of what it means to be a disciple of Jesus and fulfill our purpose in advancing His kingdom here on earth. Fullness comes to us when we remember to be with Him before we go out to serve Him. When we prioritize being with Jesus before engaging in serving Him, we open ourselves up to a sense of fullness and alignment with His will. Jesus desires for our hearts to be intimately connected with His before we set out to carry out tasks and assignments for Him. This alignment allows us to approach our daily responsibilities with a sense of purpose, clarity and intentionality.

Daniel Moore: 31:33

Through spending time with Jesus in prayer, worship and studying His Word, we are reminded of His love, grace and truth. This daily connection with Him enables us to receive the strength, wisdom and guidance that we need to navigate the challenges and opportunities that come our way, that we need to navigate the challenges and opportunities that come our way. Jesus graciously extends what we need to fulfill our calling and invites us to partake in His presence and grace. Each day, as we immerse ourselves in His presence and allow Him to replenish our cups, Jesus gently reminds us that the Christian journey is not a race to see who can achieve the fastest pace or accomplish the most tasks. Instead, he calls us to persevere on the path that he has uniquely marked out for us, trusting in His timing and guidance by fixing our focus on staying in love with Him and seeking His kingdom above all else, we can experience a deep sense of fulfillment and purpose as we walk in obedience and surrender to His will. Jesus' desire is for us to find joy and satisfaction in abiding in Him, rather than striving for worldly recognition or success. Then, and only then, will I stop flirting with this world and instead operate from the full assurance of His love.

Daniel Moore: 33:00

It's not a conscious decision in my mind that I am worthy of love, nor is it about manipulating my feelings to believe I am loved. Instead, it's about a deep understanding in my soul that I was created by God, who lovingly formed me because he cherished the very essence of who I am. Before I even existed. He saw value in me and declared me not just good, but very good and deeply loved. Hence I have the ability to cultivate a loving atmosphere in any circumstance that I encounter. I do not need to wait, wish or strive to obtain it. Instead, I can simply radiate the love I desire. In doing so, I am less inclined to seek validation from the world, as I have already found true approval from God. Validation from the world, as I have already found true approval from God. Additionally, I am less prone to misinterpret rejection when it is not present, as I am not longing for external affection. I am loved. This should be the Genesis thought of every day, not because of how awesome I am. God doesn't base what he thinks about me On my own futile efforts. No, god's love isn't based on me. It's simply placed on me and it's the place from which I should live, loved.

Daniel Moore: 34:27

The fear of rejection is an anxiety that runs deep inside of us. Often we're not even aware of how significantly it is influencing us and affecting us. When the fear of rejection dominates us, we make lots of bad decisions. When we're insecure on the inside, we miss some of the best that God has for us. You will never experience enough love from people to successfully and perpetually free you from insecurity and the fear of rejection. The only love that can and will do this is God's love.

Daniel Moore: 35:06

If you were to write the definition of love, what would it be? If you were to write the definition of rejection, what would that be? Rejection is linked to pride and perfection. The pride that we have in life sometimes causes us to expect perfection in everything we do. When we are rejected, we take it harder and, without knowing it. We usually turn around and reject someone else ourselves in similar fashions. One thing you have to remember doors will always close in your face. It's up to you to open new ones and move on.

Daniel Moore: 35:48

What have you been rejected from before? Not making a sports team or a club, not getting selected for something, someone not liking you back or not wanting to date you, not feeling like you are part of a social circle of people, or feeling like people do not accept you? How did you feel when you got rejected? Was you hurt? Did you feel pity? Were you shamed, frustrated, confused, upset, unmotivated or isolated? Is rejection always bad? You know, sometimes rejection will open new doors. Can rejection lead to success later? Do people who never face rejection and always get what they want struggle in life later on? Have you ever felt jealous of a friend who got something that you wanted? Has someone ever made fun of you for being rejected from something?

Daniel Moore: 36:52

Why is it so important to pursue healing for the pain of your past? What effect can this have on your ability to move forward in the future? What effect can this have on your ability to move forward in the future? How can you retrain your brain so that you think and care more about God's approval than the approval of others? Well, those are all questions that we all probably ask. The sad reality is that many people will take pleasure in seeing you not get what you want and get rejected. You must keep a positive attitude and not let that get to you. Most importantly, you must persevere. Rejection is not failure, it is redirection.

Daniel Moore: 37:43

Well, that's going to do it for this week's episode and that wraps up our three-part series on rejection. Please subscribe to be sure that you don't miss any future episodes here from Connecting the Gap. I'm Daniel Moore. Thank you, guys, for listening this week. This show really wouldn't be possible without you. If you're a fan of the show, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, or if you'd like to help us out, just take a few seconds to give us a five-star click and please subscribe to us on your favorite platform. The links for those are in the show notes. Well, that's all for this week, and we believe that God's Word never fails us. God's Word has stood the test of time and, through Jesus' death on the cross, he has connected the gap.

Aria: 38:41

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